Controversy and Concerns: Gil Ramirez’s Restraining Order Raises Questions for The Golden Bachelorette Franchise

The text highlights the controversy surrounding *The Golden Bachelorette* contestant Gil Ramirez, who faced a restraining order for harassment just before filming began. The incident, along with a similar previous scandal, raises concerns about the franchise's vetting process and its impact on viewer trust. Despite these challenges, there remains hope for a positive season outcome.
SummaryGil Ramirez, a contestant on the inaugural season of The Golden Bachelorette, faced serious allegations just before filming began. His ex-girlfriend filed a temporary restraining order against him for emotional harassment, claiming repeated unwanted contact. The order was eventually dismissed due to service issues. In response to these revelations, the show’s producers limited his screen time. This incident, alongside a similar issue involving The Bachelorette Season 21 winner Devin Strader, has raised concerns about the franchise’s vetting process, eroding fan trust. The franchise is urged to improve its background checks to prevent casting potentially dangerous contestants. Despite these issues, there is hope that Joan Vassos’s season will have a positive outcome. The Golden Bachelorette airs on ABC.

Gil Ramirez’s Controversial Past Surfaces

Background Check and Legal Issues

Gil Ramirez, a 60-year-old educator from Mission Viejo, California, appeared as a contestant on the first season of The Golden Bachelorette, which premiered on September 18. Despite receiving a rose from the leading lady, Joan Vassos, troubling information about Gil has recently come to light.

Court documents reveal that Gil’s ex-girlfriend filed a temporary restraining order against him just days before filming began on June 20. The order, filed on June 11, cited “harassment – emotional” as the reason. While the ex-girlfriend sought a domestic violence restraining order, she clarified that there was no physical injury involved. She alleged that Gil made repeated unwanted contact with her, her family, and friends, despite her requests to cease communication. These interactions included up to 25 attempts daily via phone, texts, and video, and even physically showing up at locations she frequented.

The ex-girlfriend’s requests extended to having Gil stay away from her home, workplace, vehicle, and children’s school. Initially granted on June 11, the temporary restraining order faced hurdles in being served to Gil, leading to postponed hearings. Eventually, on July 24, the case was dismissed without prejudice due to lack of prosecution and service, resulting in the order being dropped.

Show’s Response and Impact

According to People, a source close to The Golden Bachelorette stated that this legal filing arose in the interim between the show’s extensive vetting process and the start of production. In response, producers have decided to further limit Gil’s screen time and reduce his presence in promotional materials moving forward.

Parallels with The Bachelorette Season 21 Scandal

This revelation follows closely on the heels of another scandal involving Devin Strader, the winner of The Bachelorette Season 21. Despite producers’ background checks, a restraining order against Devin was uncovered by Reality Steve, raising significant concerns about the franchise’s vetting process.

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Eroding Trust in the Franchise

These incidents have severely impacted fans’ trust in The Bachelor franchise. The casting of two contestants with restraining orders in consecutive seasons is alarming. Prospective leads may hesitate to participate, fearing the inclusion of potentially dangerous individuals.

The Need for Improved Vetting

The Bachelor franchise must enhance its vetting procedures to prevent casting individuals like Gil and Devin. If media outlets can access this information, producers should certainly be able to do the same. While negative reports about contestants are not uncommon, these recent cases are particularly serious.

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Hope for Joan Vassos’s Season

It is unfortunate that such troubling news has surfaced shortly after the hopeful premiere of Joan’s season on The Golden Bachelorette. For the franchise to maintain its audience and integrity, significant improvements are necessary. Hopefully, Joan’s journey will remain positive, leading to a satisfying conclusion.

The Golden Bachelorette airs Wednesdays at 8 p.m. EDT on ABC.

Source: People

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