Statler Riley Reflects on Trust and Safety After Breakup with Dempsey Wilkinson

Statler Riley and Dempsey Wilkinson's relationship from "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way" ended due to infidelity and trust issues. Statler emphasizes the importance of safety and empathy in relationships, sharing her experiences post-breakup. Despite initial hopes, their relationship revealed significant challenges, leading Statler to reflect on her needs for a supportive partner.
SummaryStatler Riley and Dempsey Wilkinson, stars of “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,” have ended their relationship, with infidelity cited as a major factor. Statler, originally from Irving, Texas, had planned to move to the U.K. to be with Dempsey, but did not communicate this, causing tension. Dempsey allegedly took advantage of Statler by making her cover their van-life expenses while being unfaithful. Following their split, Statler has shared her insights on social media about the importance of feeling safe in a relationship, subtly referencing her experiences with Dempsey. She thanked her friends for their support and reflected on her initial belief that Dempsey was her ideal partner, acknowledging the importance of empathy and compassion in a relationship. Statler has yet to fully explain what made her feel unsafe, but hints at unfavorable situations. The couple was together until at least February 2024, after which the affair was exposed following the show’s filming. “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way” airs on TLC.

The Fallout of Statler Riley and Dempsey Wilkinson’s Relationship

Introduction to Statler Riley’s Love Life

Statler Riley, a Texas native from Irving, had always been open about her adventurous romantic escapades. Her life took a dramatic turn when she met Dempsey Wilkinson, a British woman, on a dating app. Statler’s plan to move to the U.K. without informing Dempsey caused tension between them. Despite this, Dempsey seemed to exploit the situation by making Statler cover their van-life expenses while allegedly being unfaithful.

The End of Statler and Dempsey’s Relationship

The couple has since parted ways, with infidelity being a significant, but not the sole, factor in their breakup. Statler recently distanced herself from the “90 Day Fiancé” franchise, opting not to participate in the season’s Tell All episode. However, she has been candid about her past relationship with Dempsey on social media.

Statler Riley’s Insights on Safe Relationships

In a recent social media post, Statler advised her followers about the importance of feeling safe in a relationship, alluding to her experiences with Dempsey. Although she did not explicitly name Dempsey, the implication was clear. Statler emphasized the lesson of seeking partners who prioritize safety and learning how to foster it.

Reflection on Past Expectations and Support

Statler expressed gratitude towards her “best friends” who supported her during difficult times. Initially, she believed Dempsey embodied her ideal partner, as both had seemingly manifested each other. However, crucial aspects were overlooked. Statler learned the importance of finding someone patient, empathetic, and compassionate towards her mental health.

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Statler’s Efforts and Dempsey’s Neglect

Throughout their relationship, Statler often stepped outside her comfort zone for Dempsey, despite her love for travel. She adapted to van-life and road trips, but Dempsey neglected Statler’s mental health needs. Additionally, Dempsey’s infidelity, involving a friend she was secretly involved with, potentially exacerbated Statler’s trust issues. Before meeting Dempsey, Statler had been single for a considerable time and was ready to settle down.

Analysis of Statler’s Accusations

Unresolved Issues Post-February 2024

Statler has not fully disclosed the incidents that made her feel unsafe with Dempsey, though she hints at being put in unfavorable situations. The affair came to light after filming for “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way” Season 6 concluded, reportedly revealed by the production team. Statler and Dempsey were together until at least February 2024, evidenced by a luxury staycation at the Ritz-Carlton in Langkawi.

“90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way” airs Mondays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.

Source: Statler Riley/Instagram

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way

  • Reality
  • Documentary

90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way flips the script on the original series. Couples who have never met face to face and have 90 days to get married switch roles. The Americans in the relationship will now head overseas for their culture shock. India, Mexico, Ethiopia, and Russia are just some countries where the show observes the blossoming (or faltering) 90-day relationship that will end happily ever after or a one-way ticket back home alone.

Release Date
June 3, 2019
Seasons
5
Network
TLC
Streaming Service(s)
TLC GO
Cast
Jenny Slatten, Sumit Singh, Kenneth Niedermeier, Armando Rubio, Ariela Weinberg, Deavan Clegg, Jihoon Lee, Corey Rathgeber
Franchise(s)
90 Day Fiancé